(July 14, 7:26pm)

I'm on a disassociating spree.. Have already stopped talking to most people, who were close.. including Miss *K, Shah*az Aunty, even Ro*an..

Ap*rva keeps coming, but soon, I know it, I'd have found my way to avoid him!

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The Kashmiri friend?

Well he himself has stopped talking, and somehow, while I do miss him, I really do not have either the patience or the vitality to sort out things!

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So, it's just mom's pictures adorning the walls.. almost all the walls... in different sizes, of different eras! And my books.. And the rains.. though they come only intermittently..

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It's 22 months today... And although I do a list of rituals every 14th, including adorning mom's DP with tuberose garlands and marigold flowers, it was after a long time I did these peacefully..

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Though peace is distant...

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By the way is peace specific, or is it only how you comprehend your own surroundings?

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(July 13, 11:17am)

Already through some 120 plus pages of The Collaborator... another half to go...

The writing is touching, and  the events a mix of joyous little things, amongst country boys growing up, to macabre tales of endless killing!

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But has Mirza been able to resist sentiment and let out a balanced narrative..

The answer is No...

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And this is regretful for an author who has previously been a journalist..

But then can I totally blame him for this evidently selective representation of events? Won't you and I do the same in a similar circumstance?

Wouldn't the sight of wailing mothers overpower, in fact benumb, your judgement of things?

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(July 12, 11:46pm)

Mom was sitting beside the sofa.. in my dreams few hours ago.. unusual it was.. since she generally doesn't show up in late afternoon naps...

Particularly when sleeping in late afternoons suggest I am too tired and lying on the bed helpless - this time on the floor beneath the orange sofa though - without any senses, conscious or intuitive to be able to weave a dream..

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Some indistinct pieces of conversation it was.. besides the feeble, gracious shadow of a smile across mama's face...

Perhaps her attempt for composure as the conversation turned from unpleasant to disparaging... me levelling true, but ungenerous accusations...

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"... Because she finished off eight lakh rupees in less than a year..." I can once more feel that irritable, almost a continually killing exasperation of years, as I threw the words on to a relative who patiently listened in hope of peace-making....

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I told him how mom had been so unbelievably reckless with money... finshing everything off with almost a bizarre speed of a madman, a drunkard...

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"A lakh went to Mr. ****'s charity who anyway do not need a patron... A couple of lakhs in buying things we never required, and which had to be dumped at Mr A***'s go-down in want of space... and perhaps another half a lakh to the hospital coming up.. or may be some trust... I am not sure."

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Should I be happy that those confrontations are finally over, though not on a note I wished for, or would allow my grimmest thoughts to imagine...

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Or should I moan, that at least, between the throttling cries of accusations, whined out from a heart that was becoming alarmingly insecure, that feeble shadow of a smile across mama's face, and mama herself, were there then?

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(July 11, 7:48pm)

Got all the four books.
Flipkart I must tell you is a prompt service!

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So, it's going to be literature, literature, and literature next couple of weeks.. plus of-course rain which is finally here to greet us!

Rain and literature, literature and rain... rain, rain.. literature and rain.... and good food... and my novel shaping up!

Gawd!

It's mood-enhancing!

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Okay, i totally forgot.. many of you must be wondering whatever happened to 'him" and the rounds of talks over family pension..

Okay.. he has agreed...
He will take it in his name and pass off to us...

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But by agreeing to transfer the money himself rather than formally through bank, he's made a space for himself from where he probably plans to impose muted authority on me, if not harass me..

He needs a foot... foot makes him feel present.. and alive... and in command..

Foot satisfies his ego.. or may be the complex... or pride or whatever he has allowed himself to be possessed with in these years..

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His volumes of learning hasn't come handy in comprehending even core requirements of a relationship..

Had he agreed for the same willingly, with few good wishes rather than 21 months of sinful tantrum, wouldn't this remarkably transform our relationship?

But then, foot and not heart seems to him more important..

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Anyway leave it... he's usurped 20 lakhs, and he'd be chipping in 24 thousands (every month).. the discourse as well as "he" end here...

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Rain, rain, more rain...
and a rain of literature too!

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(July 10, 1:27pm)

Just ordered a few books on Kashmir on flipcart...
Hope to have them delivered by end of week...

These include The Collaborator by Mirza Waheed, Curfewed Night by Basharat Peer, Kashmir, the Untold Story by Humra Quereshi, and, My Kashmir: Conflict and the Prospects for Enduring Peace by Wajahat Habibullah..

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The choices haven't been random... I was always sure I'd be balancing my reads between fiction and non-fiction...

That's because the danger of 'self-interest' is as much imminent in civil servants writing a memoir as it is in Kashmiri Muslim writers, who might extol militants to a degree where their atrocities on Pandit men and women get only insufficient mention or may be written in a fashion that inclines the reader to believe these were sporadic, isolated incidents, not part of the larger objective...

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So while the first book is a fiction by a Kashmiri Muslim, the second one is a non-fiction by his brethren around the same time..

The third book is journalist Quereshi's account of his two decades of interaction with village folk, and the fourth one is by Wajahat Habibullah, perhaps the only government servant to have referred to the Konan Poshpora victims as "genuine in their anger"....

And this at a time when the army was doing its every bit to prove the 12 hour long mass rape as ISI propaganda...

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Let's see.. I have to read a lot... Mine is only a story of relationships, but since the plot is J&K, I must allow every interpretation of the conflict intrigue me, if not influence me!

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(July 5, 5:10pm)

Trying to collect few credible books on Kashmir... mostly non-fictions that have some accounts on how militancy, in its peak years of 1990-95 reflected in the lives of people...

Books which have more to tell about ordinary men living in far-off pockets, than ideologues or agencies shaping policy in downtown Srinagar..

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Actually, that's going to be a part of the novel... and no, it wouldn't be an analysis of issues or any attempt to pronounce judgement on either parties to the conflict..

It is very much going to be a story of deep and powerful attachment.. and the longingness for a quiet, happy life, which is common to everybody..

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But in order to test this attachment between people, and in consequence their very belief in human values, a disturbing plot was needed, for which Kashmir seemed to me apt..

And not that I am using a region (J&K) to serve tool for a commercial end... I can never possibly be that mean enough..

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But then.. Kashmir to me is a story of love, infallible and continuing in a situation where hatred would seem natural to even the morally upright..

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And that's what my novel is about too...

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(July 2, 9:02pm)

DEPRESSED AGAIN

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I think this girl from Mumbai doesn't like me much these days.. But Feedjit shows she's been checking my blog even now.. why?

Is it 'interest' transformed to 'plain curiosity'?

But then, interest to curiosity is bad transition...
It shows the concern is no longer present..

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And the Kashmiri friend?
Is he concerned or not concerned?

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