(May 24, 12:20am)

Okay tell me one thing, if you liked sbd and it was all green signal from the other side too, shud you still refuse it just because this may not work after say 5-6 years??

I mean why not add beauty to life, albeit ephemeral...but what if you believed decisively in one-life, hence lifetime's love kind of doctrine??

And then will you be able to find that really...frankly, most of these guys generally settle down with behenji types..rechristened more kindly as sati-savitris...no offence meant...every person is unique in his her own way, and worth her dignity too....

But frankly, I wudnt be happy in that situation...may be they arent too...then?

Is their faithfulness sham...or just a sternly ingrained belief that measures ones dignity vis-a-vis one's element of loyalty...

But here the question is, with good chances of your eventually settling down with your not-the-cynosure-of-all-eyes girl, shud you still let better options slip??

Only fearing they may not sustain eventually....but then what about the belief....one life-one person postulate....oh god, im so much the sickening husband type...i hope no eligilble girl is reading this...

XXX